A promise to myself, and this promise will be:


When I have my own house in the future, I will have the most technological, nicest and most appropriate theatre system setup so I don't have to go to public theaters if not necessary.


You might ask why - and that is because I CANNOT STAND ppl's inappropriate actions in public theaters anymore.

I love watching movies. I enjoy movies a lot. But sometimes these inappropriate actions from others would really distract me to a point where I just want to stand up in the middle of the theater, stop the movie, and just yell at those who are distracting me. If I can't concentrate and enjoy the movie - the person who is actually distracting me cannot as well, until he/she UNDERSTANDS what kind of distraction they are doing to others :P

Things I HATE people doing in the theaters (that distracts me A LOT =,=):

1) Kicking people chairs from the back:

I'm not talking about 1-2 times; I am talking about NON-STOP throughout the whole movie. Like WTF, are your legs OK? Do they have PARKINSON'S DISEASE or sth???

2) When they cross their legs, they tend to (or like to) rest their legs (with their dirty, smelly shoes) on where your head rests:

Honestly, when you turn around and see this fu*king smelly, ugly shoes on top or your head, even if you turn around and pretend not to see it, tell me HOW COMFORTABLE you can be leaning your head back and watch the rest of the movie. One time I literally moved to another seat and gave the most evil, disgusted glare at that person doing that to me, and he actually dare to gave me back a "I don't fu*king care" look....so pissed.

3) Talk during movies:

If you don't understand the movie and need to ask the person beside you, you either ask in a voice level that no one else can hear, or you use other forms of communication - I don't care if it's sms, writing, acting - JUST DON'T LET ME HEAR YOU TALK =,=. Honestly, watch out your voice levels when A MOVIE IS PLAYING. No one needs to listen to your stupid questions, jokes, comments etc... =,=.

4) Eating/drinking manners:

This actually doesn't distract me during the movie, but gives me an unhappy mood when I walk out of the theater as well. Ok ppl, it's not like we're 3 yr old babies where we spill whenever we eat/drink. Like is it necessary to put the whole bucket full of popcorn into your mouth all at once? Enjoy the movie - enjoy the popcorns as well. Eat slowly. You have a WHOLE MOVIE'S TIME to finish your popcorn. You don't have to rush it down =,=. Eating slowly and small amounts at once actually decrease the chance of you dropping your food to the floor, so that WHEN OTHERS LEAVE THE THEATER, THEY DUN NEED TO STEP ON YOUR LEFT OVERS AND HAVE A DIRTY/SMELLY/STICKY SHOES to leave the theater with =,=.........

I think that's all the complaints I have so far experienced. Coming to think of it...it's not just really about ppl's attitudes in public theaters, but how ppl can be SO INCONSIDERATE of others these days.....it's scary.

Is not about whether you have the heart or not anymore. When you need to find the 4, it's not just about that. Some people look for the fun, some people look for the competition.

Can you find 4 that thinks EXACTLY the same?
Can you find 4 that wants to walk the EXACT same goal as you?
Can you find 4 that THINKS exactly the same as you when it comes to this?

That is the question - not WHY ppl don't have the heart to do it, but WHY are ppl not joining you.

You always blame people for not having the heart to do so - YES I DO ADMIT, there are people like that, and I don't understand too to be honest with you. But have you thought about those who DOES have the heart but still backs out of this?


Think about it...maybe that's another reflection for you there.